As much as you want to invite every single person that has touched your life, you just can’t. One of the hardest parts about planning your wedding is figuring out who you feel should be invited to share in your special day. And we all know, the bigger the guest-list, the bigger the budget your wedding will have to be. So the best thing to do is to start writing down a list of people you actually want to invite to your wedding early on in your planning phase.
One thing you can do is once you list out all the guest you’d like to invite, you can make a note next to each name explaining how they have touched your lives and why they should be invited. People you aren’t close to or relatives you haven’t seen in ages can definitely be eliminated from the list. Co-workers you are not close to can also be eliminated. Just because you are close to some co-workers doesn’t mean you have to invite all of them just so the few can attend. I’m sure the ones who aren’t close to you will understand why they weren’t invited in the first place. Don’t feel bad for taking them off the list just because you’ll have to see them almost everyday after.
Keeping within the budget can get tough as the planning process progresses. Ensuring that you invite only people who matter to you the most will definitely help to eliminate the stress of your budget going up. It’s the easiest way to keep your budget in check and be able to spend your money on other parts of your wedding that matter to you more.
So don’t feel bad for that family member who was twice removed whom you won’t be inviting. Or that casual friend who you see on occasion at other weddings or special events. Your main focus is to ensure that you are happy with the whole outcome of your wedding. Also, don’t feel like you need to please your parents and invite the whole enchilada of a family you have and have never met in your life. Sometimes they just want to share in their child’s big day, but if they aren’t going to help with the budget, then don’t feel obligated to invite your mom’s best friends aunt to your wedding.