Special Events

Day After The Wedding: Brunch


Not necessary to include into your wedding, but a brunch for some of your closest family and guests is a nice way to conclude your celebrations.  Brunches are typically funded by the bride and groom and are held either at a home or restaurant.  If you decide to have brunch at home, it’s more carefree and relaxed, but you’ll have to deal with the cleaning after.  But a restaurant brunch allows for freedom to just eat and catch up on the previous night’s events.  You don’t have to clean and you just enjoy the list couple of minutes before you depart on your honeymoon.  Some hotels and restaurants provide great packages when you include the reception dinner and brunch to your deal is a great bonus to having brunch.  You can invite anyone to the brunch.  Some people tend to invite the guests who have come from out of town just to thank them for taking the time to come out and share in your celebrations.  Of course family and close friends can be invited too.  So do as you like with the brunch.  Have it or don’t.  It’s just a great way to say thank you to your guests and is a last hurrah to your wedding experience.


Hire A Nanny On Your Wedding Day


You may not think it practical now, but wait until the day of your wedding and you wish that the little ones had some other place to run around and play instead of making a lot of unnecessary noise at the reception.  Children have so much energy in them that when asked to sit quietly, they will not.  Nowadays, nanny and babysitting services have specific packages for weddings.  They supply everything you will need to keep the children entertained.  You can also hire them for both the ceremony and the reception if you feel it necessary.  Not only will you have a wedding that is free of loud and rowdy children, but the parents of these children can actually enjoy the celebration of your marriage.  Everyone is happy in the end.  Just make sure that if you decide to hire a babysitting service that they have high ratings, are licensed and insured.  You want to make sure you enjoy your day to the fullest so why not  provide this great service to your guests as well!


Choosing the Perfect Wedding Date


Choosing a wedding date is very crucial because you want to ensure that the date you want is available to the venue that you are choosing.  And also because it is another milestone in both your lives and the date should be a memorable one.  It should be made with a lot of thought and consideration.

You want to make sure that you pick a date that isn’t around the time of terrible weather season because it might impact the number of guests who will decide to attend the day of.  If you’re in California or anywhere where rain is scarce, then you’re lucky to not have to worry about the rainy weather so much.  But the heat may be a different story.  Your guests will most likely still be in attendance but you should reconsider the date in the summertime if you have plan to have an outdoor ceremony.  Your guests might not like it very much if they are stuck outside in the heat as they wait for you to walk down that aisle.  But if you do decide to go with a summer wedding, make sure that you accommodate your guests with cute fans or refreshments to drink prior to the start of the wedding.

Avoiding a date around the holidays or a birthday should also be considered.  You want your date to be special.  When I say birthday, I specifically mean you and your significant others’ birthdays.  Do you really want to celebrate a birthday and a wedding anniversary at the same time?  Others might beg to differ and think it has more meaning when you celebrate a birthday on the wedding day as well.  But that is a matter of preference.

So carefully consider your wedding date and make sure you avoid any milestone dates and special memories that you feel could take away the special significance of your anniversary!



Trimming Down The Guest-List


As much as you want to invite every single person that has touched your life, you just can’t. One of the hardest parts about planning your wedding  is figuring out who you feel should be invited to share in your special day.  And we all know, the bigger the guest-list, the bigger the budget your wedding will have to be.  So the best thing to do is to start writing down a list of people you actually want to invite to your wedding early on in your planning phase.

One thing you can do is once you list out all the guest you’d like to invite, you can make a note next to each name explaining how they have touched your lives and why they should be invited.  People you aren’t close to or relatives you haven’t seen in ages can definitely be eliminated from the list.  Co-workers you are not close to can also be eliminated.  Just because you are close to some co-workers doesn’t mean you have to invite all of them just so the few can attend.  I’m sure the ones who aren’t close to you will understand why they weren’t invited in the first place.  Don’t feel bad for taking them off the list just because you’ll have to see them almost everyday after.

Keeping within the budget can get tough as the planning process progresses.  Ensuring that you invite only people who matter to you the most will definitely help to eliminate the stress of your budget going up.  It’s the easiest way to keep your budget in check and be able to spend your money on other parts of your wedding that matter to you more.

So don’t feel bad for that family member who was twice removed whom you won’t be inviting.  Or that casual friend who you see on occasion at other weddings or special events.  Your main focus is to ensure that you are happy with the whole outcome of your wedding.  Also, don’t feel like you need to please your parents and invite the whole enchilada of a family you have and have never met in your life.  Sometimes they just want to share in their child’s big day, but if they aren’t going to help with the budget, then don’t feel obligated to invite your mom’s best friends aunt to your wedding.

Happy planning!


Should You Follow The Trend?

14473533783_8affbe1b42_oYou’re finally engaged!! It’s now time for the fun part.  Planning your big day!  Okay.  It may not be fun for all.  It might actually be stressful.  That’s why you have professionals like me to help you along the way.  So it’s now time to figure out the theme of your wedding.  You’re probably trying to figure out what the current trend is and how you can incorporate it into your theme.  But is today’s trend really something you want to incorporate into your wedding?  What if you aren’t a huge fan of the rustic theme or having metallic pieces decorate your tables?  Do you feel the pressure to have the best wedding ever and the only way you think you can do that is to follow the current trend of the year?  I say NO!! Don’t follow the trend.  Follow your heart and what you love.  In the long run, it will make you a lot happier when you see the outcome than to create a wedding theme to impress your guests.  I feel that no matter how you make your wedding look, your guests will be impressed no matter what.  After all, you are inviting your nearest and dearest friends and family and not wedding critics to your wedding.  So forget what those trendy magazines and websites have to say about what today’s trend is.  Just do you!! Do you and be happy!! That’s all that matters.




Wedding Roles: Bridesmaids and Groomsmen


So why would someone need bridesmaids and groomsmen if they already have a Maid of Honor and Best Man? Traditionally, Ancient Roman law required ten witnesses for the bride and groom to be wed.  The closest friends of the newly wedded couple were to dress exactly like the two who are to be married as to confuse the spirits of who was the one actually getting married.  They didn’t want any vengeful spirits to harm the couple or jealous suitors to try to take the bride away from the groom.  How crazy is that?! And the night before the wedding, the groom and his men would sneak into the potential bride’s home to kidnap her.  They would form small armies to complete the mission and to fight off anyone that got in his way of capturing his bride-to-be.  What a life that would be to live back in those days!

Now the bridesmaids and groomsmen are asked to be part of the wedding party because they are the closest to the bride and groom.  They are also taking the responsibility in helping the couple in whatever is needed from them.  The Maid of Honor and Best Man are to assist and delegate the duties to the rest of the party to ensure everything is done in a timely manner.  They must attend all fittings, parties, and help spread the word about the parties they are attending.  These parties would include the wedding shower, bridal shower, bachelorette party, and bachelor party.  They help run any last minute errands that would be needed for the wedding.  They also need to attend rehearsal so all instructions can be thoroughly instructed for the wedding.  A bridesmaid’s job is more elaborate than a groomsmen’s job.  Mainly because the bride has more tasks that need to be done than the groom.  Bridesmaids and Groomsmen also need to pose for any photos that the couple and photographers would like to take.  Mingling with the guests is also very important especially when they are waiting for the ceremony or reception to begin.  This helps the couple more time to freshen up and prepare for the most important day of their lives.  The jobs that are given to the bridesmaids and groomsmen are to make sure that the bride and the groom have a worry free wedding day.  Especially if there is no wedding coordinator, the responsibility to ensure a timely wedding falls upon your wedding party.

Happy Planning!


Adult Only Reception – No Children Allowed?


Credits – The Wedding Printer

So you are thinking of limiting your guest count to adults only but you don’t know a good way of telling your guests without hurting their feelings?  Your wedding should go off without a hitch and with no interruptions.  Having an adults only reception allows your guests to enjoy the night without having to tend to their children.  This also allows for the underage kids to not “accidentally” obtain adult beverages on accident.  You also won’t have to worry about the little ones crying during the important moments of your wedding.  But how do you let them know that children aren’t allowed without getting their feelings hurt?  Personally, I feel that guests should see being invited to your wedding as a privilege.  You are extending an invitation to share your special day with them and they shouldn’t be upset you don’t want their children attending.  It is your preference to do this, not theirs.

I have compiled a couple of ways to tell your guests that children are not allowed at your reception.  Here are a few:

//1// Plain and simple – Note on the invitation “Adult Reception to Follow.”  It is straight forward and clear directions on your invitation of what is to be expected.

//2// Have fun with it – “Children will be given double espressos, a pound of chocolate, a paintball gun, and a puppy.”  I saw this online and thought it was a cute way to note to your guests to not bring their children.  If you are a couple who loves to joke around with your friends and family, then this would be a great way to tell your guest on your invitations.

//3// Address the invitees – “To Mr. and/or Miss/Mrs…”  Addressing the people invited also shows your guests who you are expecting to attend.  Not including “…and family,” will allow them to realize what your expectations are.

//4// Number of guests invited – “We have ______ seats reserved in your honor.”  This is also a straight forward way of telling your guests how many are expected to attend within their family.  You can also include “Adult Reception to Follow,” in the invitations as well.

Creating your guest list should be the least of your worries when planning your wedding.  It’s all about you and your other half joining together in uniting your love for one another.  You are inviting your friends and your family to share in this special moment with you and however you choose to create your guest list will not matter to them as much as you think.  You may be worried that people would think of this as rude to do so.  But if they really do get hurt for not being able to bring their children, then maybe they should rethink who’s day is being celebrated in the end.  It most definitely is not their day right?  Let me know what you think about this!


Irene + John’s Wedding: California Science Center //110814//

A couple of months ago, I’ve had the pleasure to plan my cousin’s wedding.  Now, you may be wondering how I was able to plan and coordinate a wedding and be able to enjoy my cousin’s special day.  I am very lucky to have such wonderful assistants who helped me coordinate the wedding once the festivities have begun.  The venue for the reception was the Willis Annenberg Building at the California Science Center.  This building was located right next door to the Rose Garden where the ceremony was held.  What made this wedding stand out to me was that this wedding was very different from the weddings that i am used to planning.  Nowadays, many brides prefer the rustic feel for their wedding.  Rustic weddings are one of my favorite themes to plan.  But getting out of my bubble and planning a totally different theme was a challenge but it was so much fun to plan.  The location offers traditional and contemporary beauty.  Where else can you find a botanical garden on the second floor, a beautiful water fountain, and an amazing backdrop?  This beauty was just jaw dropping and I definitely hope that I can plan more events in that space.

Irene and John’s wedding was just so magical.  The venue was transformed into a beautiful and glamorous reception.  With the high and low centerpieces and pink lighting and fluorescent pin spots throughout the room, it was a sight to see.  This wedding was very different for the guests because in an Asian culture, oftentimes, the wedding consists of the tea ceremony, hours at the park taking photos with family and friends, and the reception at a traditional Chinese restaurant a couple of hours later. Irene and John wanted to do something different but include some of the traditions that Irene did not want her family to forget.  We had the tea ceremony in the morning and we also had Lion Dancers at the start of the receptions.  We also did a family style dinner consisting of specialty Chinese dishes.  As soon as dinner was completed, the festivities began and guests enjoyed dancing the night away.  This day was definitely one Irene and John will never forget.

Kevin Le Vu Photography was kind enough to send me some photos of the wedding.  Check it out down below!  If you haven’t had the chance to watch their same day edit video by FonD Productions, click here.

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Videographer// FonD Productions

Photographer// Kevin Le Vu Photography

Wedding Planner// Emily Lieng: Everlasting Serendipity

Wedding Caterer & Reception Coordinator// Mariel Lee: Event Professionals

Hair and Makeup// Chiali Meng

Floral Design// Matt Duran: The Flower Garden

DJ & Lighting// Allen Lee: Shine Entertainment

Wedding Ceremony// Expo Center Rose Garden

Wedding Reception// California Science Center ( Wallis Annenberg Building)


Why You Should Hire a Wedding Planner


Do you want to be stressing on the day of your wedding? Do you want to deal with collecting all the RSVP’s from your guests and calculating how many people will be attending your big day? Do you want to be constantly bothered by vendors and guests with questions on the day of your wedding rather than enjoying it fully?  If you answered NO to any of these, this is why you need a wedding planner.  072

Wedding planners are there to help you with all the details of your wedding.  They are there to help you find the perfect venue and vendors.  Unless you know where you’ve always wanted to get married, you wouldn’t want to waste your planning time looking for a venue.  Planners help you narrow down your decisions so that it will be easier to decide on what fits you best.  From your first consultation, a planner tries to figure out your personality and your style so they can easily help you plan the wedding to your perfection.


But you want to plan your own wedding anyways? Some brides want to have the chance of being a part of the planning process or a wedding planner may not be in the budget.  She want to be able to make all the decisions on her own without having to consult with a professional.  Wedding coordinators are perfect for these kinds of brides.  The bride meets the coordinator a couple of weeks before to talk about the details of the wedding and what it is they will need help with.  Coordinators are perfect for the day of the wedding because it allows the bride and groom to be stress-free and enjoy their day.  Brides who don’t have coordinators tend to stress out when vendors and guests start coming to them asking them questions about the wedding.  Coordinators will be your go to person when anyone has a question.  That way the happy couple stays happy throughout the day and into the night.  081

I recommend couples to hire a wedding planner because when you work with a professional throughout the whole process, the planner will understand your needs and they’ll feel like your friends rather than another vendor. But if a planner isn’t in your budget or you’ve always wanted to play a part in every aspect of your wedding, then a coordinator would be something you should invest in.  At least have a professional run your wedding to ensure it goes smoothly and worry-free!

Happy Planning!!

Photo credits: Traveling Tree Photography


Tip Tuesday: Rainy Wedding Day


Who said that rain on your wedding had to be a bad thing? If your wedding day ends up having some unexpected rainfall, why not take advantage of it with your photographer.  Overcast skies give off some of the best lighting.  Get creative with the lighting and rainy window panes.  I just love how raindrops look on window panes.  Heck, I just love rain in general.  I’m a dancing in the rain kind of gal.  Rain can give off such a unique artistic feel to your photos.  Being outdoors during the overcast can allow for some pretty romantic photo ops.


If it’s still raining at the end of the night and you aren’t worried about getting your dress ruined, run into the rain and share a dance with your wedding party.  No umbrella required.  You get great photos and an awesome way to end the night.  Just make sure you’re wearing your favorite waterproof mascara! Embrace the Rain!